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Masturbation Motivation
“But Emma! If I’m always edging and horny how can I possibly get anything done??” I admit, it’s true. Denying yourself orgasms can have a side effect: constant horniness. You might wake up desperate or find that randomly during the day your sex drive lights up out of nowhere. Sometimes you might be low level aroused for hours without touching yourself. I’ve been there plenty of times myself. As I write this I’m currently two days into orgasm denial, motivation and focus has been… well, tough. The fact that you’re reading this, though, proves that I prevailed. You may be wondering how I could sit here editing videos and finishing…
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The Ruined Orgasm
How to Ruin an Orgasm If you are involved in the edging, orgasm control, or gooning community you have probably seen people talking about “ruining” their orgasm. But what does that mean? Imagine you are having a solo session and things are getting steamy. You know that soon you’re going to cum, and the urge to push yourself over the edge is irresistible. But what if, as soon as you feel yourself explode with pleasure, you stop all stimulation. That, and the wonderful terrible frustration that follows, is a ruined orgasm. Gender Differences For people with penises ruined orgasms are easy to spot. Usually a tell tale sign is cum…
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My Masturbation Habits
I have talked a LOT about porn and masturbation in this blog so far, so you probably have guessed by now that I’m pretty in touch with the erotic side of myself. I wanted to share with you today a brief history of my adventures in self pleasure. Early Introductions The first time I found out that my clit was more than just a random bump was when I was a young child playing doctor with a friend. After that day I spent every night exploring myself for hours. It became my favorite thing to do when I was bored (something that has stuck with me to this day). Anything…
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Solosexual Dating
Does being solosexual mean being alone? I don’t think so. While there are many people who can’t imagine a relationship without sex I would say there are just as many in which it is not that big of a deal. In reality, 20% of relationships are sexless and up to 19% of men and 40% of women avoid sex at some point in their lives. While those numbers seem small they translate to millions of people; with the help of the internet dating as a solosexual is more possible now than ever. Temper Your Expectations Dating is hard. There are a million reasons why you may not fit with someone…
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Professional vs Amateur
In the world of porn there are a TON of subcategories. Today I wanted to talk about amateur vs professional productions. Porn shot by pros will be pretty much obvious from the start. The video quality will be high and there is most often an entire team behind the scenes making sure that things run smoothly. Hair, makeup, wardrobe, set, lights, and sound will all be things mostly likely taken care of by someone other than the actors. There’s a director and a team of people responsible for editing and marketing the content. People generally like this type of porn because you can be sure that the video will be…
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How To Get Your Girlfriend Into Edging and Gooning
The number one question I get asked when men see that I’m a gooner girl is “How can I make my girlfriend like you??”. While it takes many years of self-brainwashing, hedonistic tendencies, sarcasm and a natural perversion to end up with a girl like me I think I have some tips on how to get your girl into edging and gooning. There’s even a chance that my advice can help you when introducing your partner into other kinks as well! Set Your Expectations It is helpful here to think about why you want this. Are you hoping to add an element of fun into your sex life? Are you…
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Types of Adult Entertainment
Sometimes I meet people that feel like porn is not for them, so they assume that there is no erotic entertainment out there that they will like. What I would like to say to those people is that they are dead wrong, unless they feel no type of sexual arousal period (yes there are those type of people out there and if this describes you- hi, hello, I love you, what are you doing here?). What types of adult entertainment are there? There is a vast world of sexy stuff out there, you don’t only have to masturbate on pornhub! In fact, there are three major categories: Visual, Aural, and…
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Taboo and You: Dealing With Shameful Kinks
If you’re reading my blog you probably have a kink or fetish, maybe buried deep deep down, that you aren’t proud of. Something taboo, embarrassing, or just strange that can make you feel less than good when you think about it in the cold hard light of day. There are a few things you can do in response to the sinking feeling of shame: Go scorched earth- delete everything related to your fetish, deny it’s existence, marry a nice lady from church and never speak of it again. This method is probably the worst thing you could do, because it’s essentially signing yourself up for a lifetime of dissatisfaction, resentment,…
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Hot Edging/Gooning Stories
A Graduation Facial My gf and I woke up at like 7 am because we needed to get ready because her little brother was getting his diploma. She went showering and I was so fucking horny that I needed to jerk off. She came back in the room, was like: ‘oh my god stop and get ready’ and started doing her makeup. I kept jerking in bed for at least half an hour till she was almost done with her makeup and she knew if she didn’t help me I wouldn’t cum and wouldn’t get up to get ready. She gave me a nice handjob and i came in like…
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Funny masturbation stories
I put out the call for funny masturbation stories and you answered! Here are some of my favorites: A Close Call I had decided to be kinky with my masturbation so got out my cuffs, ballgag, nipple clamps and posture collar. I had been going for so long I lost track of time and then my brother opened my bedroom door seeing why my light was on and i quickly covered myself up hiding my face and drool covered body. Must have been going for at least 3 hours . He just said my name a few times to see if I was awake before leaving my light on and…
