If you like to have sex, mutual masturbation is a great way to demonstrate where and how you like to be touched.
You might think that it’s pretty straight-forward, but my years in adult entertainment have taught me that EVERYONE enjoys pleasure a little differently. Don’t you want to find out the little thing that makes your loved one unique? It’s like you’re being handed the cheat codes to the worlds most complicated video game. Who wouldn’t want that?
It builds trust
There is hardly a time when you are more vulnerable than when you’re flicking the bean. You’re fully exposed to the other person in a moment of intense pleasure. There is no hiding this raw, honest version of you. Two people that show that side of themselves to another can’t help but bond. When both treat the other with respect- no laughing, sarcasm, or judgement- a strong trust is built that I personally argue is hard to match from any other experience.
Its low effort
I don’t care who you are. Sometimes you’re just plain tired. The thought of going through the physical work of a full fledged fucking can seem impossible! Especially for people that have to or like to do things like clean themselves beforehand. That being said, there are times when your body has a need that won’t be ignored (I’m looking at you, horny 5 drinks deep emma who is too drunk to get out of bed). Masturbating together can be a life saver in this situation. You both get to build intimacy and experience pleasure, for a fraction of the effort.
It’s a different type of intimacy
How many times can you do missionary before it gets old? Even the kinkiest couples can get stuck in a rut or routine and want to mix it up. Masturbation adds something different to the bedroom. It raises the possible number of sex acts exponentially.
Everyone can orgasm
I don’t know how many times I have to say this, but many women can’t orgasm from penetration alone! If you’ve ever been with a woman you know that orgasms can be difficult to achieve for a variety of reasons. The odds are higher that a woman can cum when she is in complete control. By masturbating together the pressure to perform the pressure for both of you to perform is much less intense. Everyone can just focus on the feeling, and building that feeling up to an explosive O.
