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How I fell in love with Gooning
You know, when it comes to how I found out about a lot of different kinks of mine I always come back to one particular microblogging platform that consumed my life from 2012-2019: Tumblr. I saw a lot in my time on that platform, where I progressed from an avid reader and writer of fan fiction to a lurker in bdsm, ddlg, bimbofication, and hypnosis circles. Then, in the summer of 2019 it happened. Female Orgasm Denial This blog female-orgasm-denial is what sewed my initial downfall. It was full of stories of women being edged senseless and denied release, sometimes for days or weeks at a time. In my search…
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How to Avoid Scams Buying Nudes Online
I can’t tell you how many times a day I hear “can you send me a naked pic to prove you’re real?” Of course my answer is always an enthusiastic “no” and admittedly sometimes a biting remark, but it has got me thinking. Is catfishing a huge issue or people trying to buy nudes and other content online? And if so, what can we (and I say we because, yes, I do buy content from sex workers online) do to make sure a real sex worker is getting our hard earned money instead of someone who simply steals images. I will come clean- I didn’t do any research about how…
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My Favorite Porn
When people (especially men) find out that I am a self proclaimed lover of porn they are SO excited. They are happy to meet a girl that is as much of a pervert as they are. Sadly, though, my tastes are generally either so vanilla or so specific, that I am rarely interested in what they send me. Don’t get me wrong, it’s all good, but there are just a few things that REALLY get me going. Boobs! I admit it! I am addicted to tits. I love them so. Natural and soft or hard and plastic- you will rarely see me turn down a chance to ogle a perfect…
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Telling Your Partner You’re Solosexual
When to tell them you’re solosexual Ultimately there is no perfect time to tell someone anything about your sexuality. It will probably always be a tough conversation, especially if you are nervous or concerned about how they may react. This being said, timing is everything. You probably don’t want to blurt it out on your first date, but you also shouldn’t wait until you’ve been together for 10 years either. When you bring this topic up will be largely determined by the unique circumstances surrounding your relationship. What’s most important is that you feel safe, secure, and confident in yourself when you do finally decide to take the leap! Prepare…
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My Casual Masturbation
If you’ve kept up with my blog you already know that my masturbation is pretty habitual. I can’t help but think: are there other people out there that masturbate like I do? While yes, I do rub myself for the obvious reasons: to climax, to feel the dopamine rush that comes from edging, etc. I also find that a lot of time my hand will wander aimlessly below the belt, almost like a form of self soothing. Bored? Masturbate.Watching TV? Masturbate.On hold on the phone? You already get the point. It isn’t intense and it isn’t driven, more of a nice gentle release of dopamine throughout my day. Casually. I’ve…
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Where to meet other masturbators
Here is my incomplete list of places on the web to meet masturbators and gooners! Free Sites Discord Discord is a messaging platform like Skype that allows users to create groups called servers. This is where I spend most of my time gooning. Notable Servers Clubgoon Onania Masturbatorium New Porn World Goon U and many many more (literally I am up to 30 porn servers now) Reddit There are a few small subreddits dedicated to gooning r/gooned r/pornischeating Twitter While there aren’t communities here, there are tons of gooners! Find one (many follow me) and you’ll find them all Instagram This is tricky because Instagram is strict about the content…
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Orgasm Spoiled
I originally posted this edge fueled rambling in the Onania discord server a few weeks ago. Enjoy! I’ve gotten spoiled. I orgasm every single day. Sometimes once, twice, three times. I’ve been “trying” to get back into orgasm denial, but lacked motivation. It’s like I know I CAN (I denied myself for the months of November and December last year), but every time I “try” I’m so greedy I give in and have my orgasm. Until yesterday. It turns out the right person can help a lot with that. I told him I was going to cum and he told me to ruin instead because I’d love how fucked up…
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Tips for the Nervous or Shy Gooner
So, you’ve decided to approach me, or another sex worker, but you’re not sure what to do. Here are some tips to ensure that you have the best experience possible! The Approach When you first go to interact with someone new, it can be a bit of a nervewracking experience. There are some tried and true ways to to get the right attention: Avoid sending a one word greeting There is no faster way to ensure that you are ignored than just saying “hi”. If I get a “hey” “hello” or even a “what’s up” I pretty much always open the message so that the notification clears, then move on…
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My Weekend in New York
This is the story of my first time meeting my gooner soulmate and a porn star in real life this past January. I originally shared this in my discord server. I wrote it on the plane ride out of town Sunday morning, so it’s not the best written, but it’s extremely raw and I didn’t want editing to take that away. Friday, January 31st Arrival I arrived at the airport and he was waiting for me outside of baggage claim. He was taller and way better looking in person than I expected, even though we video chat a lot. It was pretty awkward in the shuttle and the taxi ride…
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How to use Niteflirt- and talk for free!
Signing Up for Niteflirt There are a few different ways to sign up for Niteflirt. The first and BEST way is to call 1-800-TO-FLIRT from any phone anywhere in the world. This will make sure that you not only get the standard 3 free minutes, but you’ll also receive $10 credited to your account! This can be used not only for phone calls, but also for chatting and buying goodies! You can also sign up by visiting the niteflirt webpage and clicking the “register” link at the top right hand corner of the page. Every account must have a credit card on file- as of right now I do not…
