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Are You There Libido? It’s Me, Emma.
I’ve pretty much always had a pretty high libido, but somehow in the last month or so that has just stopped. It’s completely disappeared.
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Orgasm Spoiled
I originally posted this edge fueled rambling in the Onania discord server a few weeks ago. Enjoy! I’ve gotten spoiled. I orgasm every single day. Sometimes once, twice, three times. I’ve been “trying” to get back into orgasm denial, but lacked motivation. It’s like I know I CAN (I denied myself for the months of November and December last year), but every time I “try” I’m so greedy I give in and have my orgasm. Until yesterday. It turns out the right person can help a lot with that. I told him I was going to cum and he told me to ruin instead because I’d love how fucked up…
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My Masturbation Habits
I have talked a LOT about porn and masturbation in this blog so far, so you probably have guessed by now that I’m pretty in touch with the erotic side of myself. I wanted to share with you today a brief history of my adventures in self pleasure. Early Introductions The first time I found out that my clit was more than just a random bump was when I was a young child playing doctor with a friend. After that day I spent every night exploring myself for hours. It became my favorite thing to do when I was bored (something that has stuck with me to this day). Anything…
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Hot Edging/Gooning Stories
A Graduation Facial My gf and I woke up at like 7 am because we needed to get ready because her little brother was getting his diploma. She went showering and I was so fucking horny that I needed to jerk off. She came back in the room, was like: ‘oh my god stop and get ready’ and started doing her makeup. I kept jerking in bed for at least half an hour till she was almost done with her makeup and she knew if she didn’t help me I wouldn’t cum and wouldn’t get up to get ready. She gave me a nice handjob and i came in like…
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Funny masturbation stories
I put out the call for funny masturbation stories and you answered! Here are some of my favorites: A Close Call I had decided to be kinky with my masturbation so got out my cuffs, ballgag, nipple clamps and posture collar. I had been going for so long I lost track of time and then my brother opened my bedroom door seeing why my light was on and i quickly covered myself up hiding my face and drool covered body. Must have been going for at least 3 hours . He just said my name a few times to see if I was awake before leaving my light on and…
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Benefits of masturbation
In our world there are a lot of myths floating around about masturbation. From “it will make you go blind” to being blamed for impotence, masturbation has really earned a bad name. Surprising to no one, these things aren’t true. In fact there are many benefits to pleasuring yourself, including: Stress relief Releasing tension Enhancement of sleep quality Better concentration Elevated mood Pain relief (including menstrual cramps) Greater understanding of one’s own body Improved vaginal lubrication Decreased pain during sex (older women) Frequent ejaculation may be linked to a lower risk of prostate cancer Most importantly: you can’t get pregnant or catch an STD from masturbating! This is not to…
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The Drop
There is something that can happen after a sexual experience, especially if it is an intense one, where you can feel a little…. well, sad. In the BDSM scene it’s called subdrop and in the sex therapy world its called postcoital dysphoria. I personally prefer to call this feeling simply “the drop” when speaking in terms of masturbation. The drop is the body’s natural response to an orgasm, where your heart rate gets lower, you relax, you feel tired. Hormones are released, such as oxytocin, vasopressin, and for men prolactin. Each of these are related to sleep in some way so it is only natural that we feel a sort…
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What is Gooning?
In my last post I talked about edging and some of the ways it can enhance your orgasm. But what happens when you edge over and over again, denying yourself for extended periods of time? Currently this practice is called gooning, and the people who partake in it are “gooners”. I myself have been known to be a gooner girl (goonette if you’re nasty). What’s so great about gooning? Well… pretty much everything. When you masturbate your body enters a heightened state and your brain releases the pleasure hormone: dopamine. When one goons they are flooding their brain with dopamine – possibly for hours on end. This can be an…
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What is Edging?
During masturbation there is a time where you can feel that final moment of ecstasy rushing at you. It’s almost like you’re climbing a mountain, getting closer and closer to the peak, before tumbling over the other side into bliss. But what happens if you go to the peak of that mountain and just stopped? That is edging- bringing yourself to the edge of an orgasm without going over. Edging has been gaining popularity over the years and is almost becoming mainstream. Many men claim that edging has increased their stamina in bed and for women it can be a fantastic way to get to know themselves. It is generally…
