• About Emma,  Masturbation

    Orgasm Spoiled

    I originally posted this edge fueled rambling in the Onania discord server a few weeks ago. Enjoy! I’ve gotten spoiled. I orgasm every single day. Sometimes once, twice, three times. I’ve been “trying” to get back into orgasm denial, but lacked motivation. It’s like I know I CAN (I denied myself for the months of November and December last year), but every time I “try” I’m so greedy I give in and have my orgasm. Until yesterday. It turns out the right person can help a lot with that. I told him I was going to cum and he told me to ruin instead because I’d love how fucked up…

  • Masturbation

    The Ruined Orgasm

    How to Ruin an Orgasm If you are involved in the edging, orgasm control, or gooning community you have probably seen people talking about “ruining” their orgasm. But what does that mean? Imagine you are having a solo session and things are getting steamy. You know that soon you’re going to cum, and the urge to push yourself over the edge is irresistible. But what if, as soon as you feel yourself explode with pleasure, you stop all stimulation. That, and the wonderful terrible frustration that follows, is a ruined orgasm.  Gender Differences For people with penises ruined orgasms are easy to spot. Usually a tell tale sign is cum…

  • Advice,  Fetish,  Masturbation

    How To Get Your Girlfriend Into Edging and Gooning

    The number one question I get asked when men see that I’m a gooner girl is “How can I make my girlfriend like you??”. While it takes many years of self-brainwashing, hedonistic tendencies, sarcasm and a natural perversion to end up with a girl like me I think I have some tips on how to get your girl into edging and gooning. There’s even a chance that my advice can help you when introducing your partner into other kinks as well!  Set Your Expectations It is helpful here to think about why you want this. Are you hoping to add an element of fun into your sex life? Are you…

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  • Masturbation

    What is Edging?

    During masturbation there is a time where you can feel that final moment of ecstasy rushing at you. It’s almost like you’re climbing a mountain, getting closer and closer to the peak, before tumbling over the other side into bliss. But what happens if you go to the peak of that mountain and just stopped? That is edging- bringing yourself to the edge of an orgasm without going over.  Edging has been gaining popularity over the years and is almost becoming mainstream.  Many men claim that edging has increased their stamina in bed and for women it can be a fantastic way to get to know themselves. It is generally…