Advice
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Tips for the Nervous or Shy Gooner
So, you’ve decided to approach me, or another sex worker, but you’re not sure what to do. Here are some tips to ensure that you have the best experience possible! The Approach When you first go to interact with someone new, it can be a bit of a nervewracking experience. There are some tried and true ways to to get the right attention: Avoid sending a one word greeting There is no faster way to ensure that you are ignored than just saying “hi”. If I get a “hey” “hello” or even a “what’s up” I pretty much always open the message so that the notification clears, then move on…
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How to use Niteflirt- and talk for free!
Signing Up for Niteflirt There are a few different ways to sign up for Niteflirt. The first and BEST way is to call 1-800-TO-FLIRT from any phone anywhere in the world. This will make sure that you not only get the standard 3 free minutes, but you’ll also receive $10 credited to your account! This can be used not only for phone calls, but also for chatting and buying goodies! You can also sign up by visiting the niteflirt webpage and clicking the “register” link at the top right hand corner of the page. Every account must have a credit card on file- as of right now I do not…
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Masturbation Motivation
“But Emma! If I’m always edging and horny how can I possibly get anything done??” I admit, it’s true. Denying yourself orgasms can have a side effect: constant horniness. You might wake up desperate or find that randomly during the day your sex drive lights up out of nowhere. Sometimes you might be low level aroused for hours without touching yourself. I’ve been there plenty of times myself. As I write this I’m currently two days into orgasm denial, motivation and focus has been… well, tough. The fact that you’re reading this, though, proves that I prevailed. You may be wondering how I could sit here editing videos and finishing…
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Solosexual Dating
Does being solosexual mean being alone? I don’t think so. While there are many people who can’t imagine a relationship without sex I would say there are just as many in which it is not that big of a deal. In reality, 20% of relationships are sexless and up to 19% of men and 40% of women avoid sex at some point in their lives. While those numbers seem small they translate to millions of people; with the help of the internet dating as a solosexual is more possible now than ever. Temper Your Expectations Dating is hard. There are a million reasons why you may not fit with someone…
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How To Get Your Girlfriend Into Edging and Gooning
The number one question I get asked when men see that I’m a gooner girl is “How can I make my girlfriend like you??”. While it takes many years of self-brainwashing, hedonistic tendencies, sarcasm and a natural perversion to end up with a girl like me I think I have some tips on how to get your girl into edging and gooning. There’s even a chance that my advice can help you when introducing your partner into other kinks as well! Set Your Expectations It is helpful here to think about why you want this. Are you hoping to add an element of fun into your sex life? Are you…
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Taboo and You: Dealing With Shameful Kinks
If you’re reading my blog you probably have a kink or fetish, maybe buried deep deep down, that you aren’t proud of. Something taboo, embarrassing, or just strange that can make you feel less than good when you think about it in the cold hard light of day. There are a few things you can do in response to the sinking feeling of shame: Go scorched earth- delete everything related to your fetish, deny it’s existence, marry a nice lady from church and never speak of it again. This method is probably the worst thing you could do, because it’s essentially signing yourself up for a lifetime of dissatisfaction, resentment,…
