Advice
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5 Reasons to Masturbate With Your Partner
If you like to have sex, mutual masturbation is a great way to demonstrate where and how you like to be touched. You might think that it’s pretty straight-forward, but my years in adult entertainment have taught me that EVERYONE enjoys pleasure a little differently. Don’t you want to find out the little thing that makes your loved one unique? It’s like you’re being handed the cheat codes to the worlds most complicated video game. Who wouldn’t want that? It builds trust There is hardly a time when you are more vulnerable than when you’re flicking the bean. You’re fully exposed to the other person in a moment of intense…
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How To Buy An Amazing Dildo
There are a few things to consider when purchasing your first dildo. So if you’re in the market to get your first one or trying to level up your collection this is a great guide to get you started! Budget The first thing you will need to decide is how much you are willing to spend and set your expectations based on that. You should expect to spend somewhere in the ballpark of $60 for an average dildo. Much less than that and you are probably going to be dealing with poor quality. The more you spend, the better it will be. Real feel dildos that have soft silicone “skin”…
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Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction
Can porn lead to erectile dysfunction? The short answer is yes. Is it as dire as everyone makes it seem? I land firmly on no. When you watch porn you are hacking your brain. You are given an endless supply of dopamine that is only limited by your desire. Every time you watch it you are training your body to respond to the artificial experience of your choosing. For the average person the odd porn fueld jerk off session isn’t going to completely retrain their brain, but when you begin to view it daily for hours at a time your brain acclimates to that level of stimulus. Not always, but…
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What Is Financial Domination- And What It Isn’t
Over the last several years the popularity of financial domination or “findom” has skyrocketed. Like anything that grows quickly this has led to a lot of misconceptions and falsehoods being perpetuated from dominants and submissives alike. Today I am here to set the record straight once and for all! What is Financial Domination? Financial domination is a relationship between a dominant and a submissive where the submissive gives gifts and money to their dominant. They may also give up complete financial control to their dominant, only recieving a small allowance each month and letting their dom take care of setting up bill payments, etc. In most of these relationships there…
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I’m Judging You Pervert- But Not the way you think
When I first get a message from a pervert I immediately start to judge them. No, not because of their kinks and fetishes, that’s the part I like. I’ve talked to people who’ve asked me to sit on cakes, pretend to be a giant, and other equally odd but harmless things. None of that bothers me, it’s fun! There are some things that are a huge turn off, though. These are the things I DO judge you for: Politeness I’m a sex worker, so I don’t exactly expect you to speak with my like I am your easily offended grandmother, but basic respect is a must. If you call me…
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The Porn Addiction Fetish Explained
If you somehow stumbled into the world of gooning without any prior knowledge you might be shocked by what you find. One of the most surprising aspects being people fetishizing porn addiction. “How can you encourage people to become addicted” you might ask me. “Isn’t that extremely unethical??” To which I would answer, yes. If I were really pushing people to become addicted to pornography that would be a terrible thing; I would be ruining lives. Luckily, this isn’t really the case. To fully explain this fetish let’s start with the definition of an addiction, from Merriam-Webster. While I use the term “addict” when talking about many of my followers,…
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The Harsh Truth About Your Small Penis
Recently I received a message from a man that was in extreme distress about the size of his penis. After exposure to years of porn, snide comments in society, and internet forums about the ills of having a small dick he was left wondering if there was any hope for him: “Most of the time I feel deformed and less masculine to suicidal levels because of this.” We spoke for a while that night and eventually I discovered something surprising. This man didn’t have a micropenis or even a small one; he was completely average. So why does he, and a growing number of men, seem to be suffering from…
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Intimacy in a Solosexual Relationship
So, now you know what it means to be solosexual and you may have even come out to your partner! That’s great, but unless you’ve been in certain circles for a long time all of your questions probably weren’t answered yet. There is one topic that comes up over and over when talking about this sexuality: intimacy. Can you still be intimate with another person if you’re solo or are you doomed to a lifetime of feeling alone? What is intimacy? There are four main types of intimacy: Experiential- doing a task together where you bond Emotional- sharing your feelings and emotions Intellectual- sharing ideas, debating Sexual- sharing sensual or…
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Telling Your Partner You’re Solosexual
When to tell them you’re solosexual Ultimately there is no perfect time to tell someone anything about your sexuality. It will probably always be a tough conversation, especially if you are nervous or concerned about how they may react. This being said, timing is everything. You probably don’t want to blurt it out on your first date, but you also shouldn’t wait until you’ve been together for 10 years either. When you bring this topic up will be largely determined by the unique circumstances surrounding your relationship. What’s most important is that you feel safe, secure, and confident in yourself when you do finally decide to take the leap! Prepare…
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Where to meet other masturbators
Here is my incomplete list of places on the web to meet masturbators and gooners! Free Sites Discord Discord is a messaging platform like Skype that allows users to create groups called servers. This is where I spend most of my time gooning. Notable Servers Clubgoon Onania Masturbatorium New Porn World Goon U and many many more (literally I am up to 30 porn servers now) Reddit There are a few small subreddits dedicated to gooning r/gooned r/pornischeating Twitter While there aren’t communities here, there are tons of gooners! Find one (many follow me) and you’ll find them all Instagram This is tricky because Instagram is strict about the content…
