• Advice

    Telling Your Partner You’re Solosexual

    When to tell them you’re solosexual Ultimately there is no perfect time to tell someone anything about your sexuality. It will probably always be a tough conversation, especially if you are nervous or concerned about how they may react. This being said, timing is everything. You probably don’t want to blurt it out on your first date, but you also shouldn’t wait until you’ve been together for 10 years either. When you bring this topic up will be largely determined by the unique circumstances surrounding your relationship. What’s most important is that you feel safe, secure, and confident in yourself when you do finally decide to take the leap! Prepare…

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  • Advice,  Masturbation,  relationships

    Solosexual Dating

    Does being solosexual mean being alone? I don’t think so. While there are many people who can’t imagine a relationship without sex I would say there are just as many in which it is not that big of a deal. In reality, 20% of relationships are sexless and up to 19% of men and 40% of women avoid sex at some point in their lives. While those numbers seem small they translate to millions of people; with the help of the internet dating as a solosexual is more possible now than ever.  Temper Your Expectations Dating is hard. There are a million reasons why you may not fit with someone…

  • Masturbation

    Pornosexuality vs Solosexuality

    There are a lot of terms floating around the internet lately about various sexualities. Today I will talk about two of my favorites: pornosexuality and solosexuality. Before I start I want to say that I’m not a sex therapist or doctor. I am not going to get into whether or not these are “real” sexualities. I would like to remind people that everything is made up by someone, nothing is real, and nothing matters. Later haters.  Let’s start with some definitions: Solosexuality- Sexual pleasure is not focused on intercourse with others. While they may feel attracted to someone they would probably prefer to be a voyuer than engage in sexual…

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