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The Drop
There is something that can happen after a sexual experience, especially if it is an intense one, where you can feel a little…. well, sad. In the BDSM scene it’s called subdrop and in the sex therapy world its called postcoital dysphoria. I personally prefer to call this feeling simply “the drop” when speaking in terms of masturbation. The drop is the body’s natural response to an orgasm, where your heart rate gets lower, you relax, you feel tired. Hormones are released, such as oxytocin, vasopressin, and for men prolactin. Each of these are related to sleep in some way so it is only natural that we feel a sort…
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What is Gooning?
In my last post I talked about edging and some of the ways it can enhance your orgasm. But what happens when you edge over and over again, denying yourself for extended periods of time? Currently this practice is called gooning, and the people who partake in it are “gooners”. I myself have been known to be a gooner girl (goonette if you’re nasty). What’s so great about gooning? Well… pretty much everything. When you masturbate your body enters a heightened state and your brain releases the pleasure hormone: dopamine. When one goons they are flooding their brain with dopamine – possibly for hours on end. This can be an…
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What is Edging?
During masturbation there is a time where you can feel that final moment of ecstasy rushing at you. It’s almost like you’re climbing a mountain, getting closer and closer to the peak, before tumbling over the other side into bliss. But what happens if you go to the peak of that mountain and just stopped? That is edging- bringing yourself to the edge of an orgasm without going over. Edging has been gaining popularity over the years and is almost becoming mainstream. Many men claim that edging has increased their stamina in bed and for women it can be a fantastic way to get to know themselves. It is generally…
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